Having good friends is like having a good relationship....
friends are something you have to work at you have to develop...you can't meet a girl today and make her your friend tomorrow....it takes time...its hard to learn someone over nite...
What makes a good friend is can she stand the times....
let's say we are out enjoying dinner we ate, we drink and we laughed now here comes the bill ...i had the waitress my card and its declined ..... now a good friend if she has it will just cover your meal and say hey you have the next meal ...she has your back...but a bad friend will watch you scratch your head and empty your purse looking for lose change while she tips valet...its like she is completely blind to your needs...goood friends understand
Once She stands the times a good friend must also be able to keep a good juicy secret...lets say I told one of my soon to be friends/associate how my boyfriend got down in bed....a good friend will laugh it off and engage in a normal conversation a bad friend will halfway smile and tell the next girl she sees just cause she can....
Just know its nothing wrong with replacing a few friends here in there but once you find the right girls dont let them go...matter of fact hug them longer even when you are having a fight...take the high road admitt when your wrong..because good friends is like your fave bottle of wine it only gets better with time.
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AWWW, my Sheena, you are the bomb!I remember the first day we met. Summer Bridge at BSU in 2002, and we have been good friends ever since. I look at you as a sister. Through the arguments..lol, we still consider each other as family. Friends are like a fave bottle of wine. Ur my Moscato...lol. I'm proud of you, keep doing what you doing!!!
Girrrrl. You are so right, I have had the same girlfriends for years. Even though we don't see each other as often as we would like or speak as often, we all have some invaluable things in common. We all can rob a bank together without any leaks, can be trusted with each other's partner, will give our last to each other but most importantly, if we never speak again, we are still best friends.
I like this one too! And you are just so on point with everything you said girl. One of my fav quotes, "You don't need a certain amount of friends, just an amount of friends you can be certain of." :)
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